Tips on being a good submissive - basic By Nina
Many people feel there is a difference between submissives and slaves. We all have different definitions, so I don't get caught in labeling. For me it's more about chemistry. Does your submission inspire my dominance and visa versa.
I always wanted to tell my clients that being a good submissive, you have to be honest up front about what kinds of play interest you. This is my first order and demand ever! Sorry to say that, I take submissive's saying "I'll do anything for you Mistress" not seriously. Would they accept if I said "Good then, stay in the room, I'll go out for a tea" and walk away? Being honest about your needs and desires help both dominant and submissive. After all, the more ways you can make your dominant's life pleasant, the more useful you are as a submissive. You should clear about your limits too.
Being a slave goes deeper than that. You need to surrender, devote, service, and trust your Mistress. But now I do not have any slaves and am not seeking any, so I don't write about being/how to be (my) slaves here.
I have played with so many submissives so far, and their styles vary, really vary. I feel like I am an observer watching someone's secret life. And I do enjoy that very much.
There is a questionnaire sheet so I can pick up their interest broadly. But there always seem a hidden-desires in the submissives. Do you want to perform a personal service or you do not want to? Are you a masochist who has only interest in receiving pain or do you want to have a sensual, caressing session? A frustrated and resentful submissive is no fun for any dominant. I try my best to understand your feelings and desires, however I am not a mind reader. I appreciate you being honest, especially if you have special needs!
Quoted from Nina's Life-Long Nap
